“If Min is my college classmate, in my impression, she is always open-minded and free and easy.”. I once sincerely admired her independent temperament and envied her independence.After graduation, Ruomin stayed in his hometown, thousands of miles away from me. She changed jobs before and after, eventually transitioning from a media person to a teacher. Along the way, her life has experienced ups and downs, and her career and love have both experienced lows. “I have been sad and helpless, but fortunately I have always maintained a childlike heart and an optimistic and open-minded spiritual realm. Therefore, after the clouds and rain, I finally see the sunshine after the rain and wind.”.
Ruo Min said that the most powerful thing to give oneself strength during the most difficult times is May Day’s “Stubbornness”.
“I am my own god, in the place where I live; my final stubbornness and I will never let go of our hands; whether the next stop is heaven, even if we are disappointed, we cannot despair; my proud stubbornness and I will sing loudly in the wind.” Ruo Min said, in fact, it is funny, a few words of heartfelt chicken soup nature lyrics, a few words of no pain, but really can make you feel that you must clench your teeth, even if one person, You should also stumble forward.
In college, Ruo Min took many other subjects as a minor in addition to the courses in his major. After a long time, she told me that it was really tiring to learn so many things at that time, but I don’t know why I couldn’t stop. Maybe it was to prove myself, maybe it was to make my life more fulfilling, and finally I was about to collapse for some time. And whenever this happens, she listens to “Stubbornness”, listens to it again and again, and then seems to come over. In fact, compared to me who was content with the status quo at that time, she really did much better than me.
After work, when encountering difficulties and setbacks, she still finds out and listens to this song, but she spends much less time listening to it than before. Because she is too busy, she is busy moving forward, and she is too busy to have too much time to feel and grieve.
Until last year, after experiencing a series of shocks, she completely fell into a kind of self denial. Question everything, from life to work, from emotions to interpersonal relationships, from IQ to EQ… but what can we do? It’s still necessary to muster up courage and brace up your spine.
So, she found out “Stubbornness” again, just like in her school days, constantly listening to it, constantly awakening the energy of desperate efforts from her heart. A simple song, unchanging melody, unchanging lyrics, through more than a decade, can still inject vitality and hope into her.
“Although we have a good relationship, before she told me about these past events, I never knew the significance of” Stubbornness “to her.”. I hope that she will always be the handsome and unrestrained girl. Even if she encounters any great difficulty or bears any deep pain, she can still hold her head high and walk steadily forward with great strides.
